Summary: Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate’s love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp…Read more.
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Gary Chapman: The Five Love Languages Audio Book Summary
The Five Love Languajes is a book by Doctor Gary Chapman, which has become a bestseller.
Part of the premise that as people speak different languages around the world, they also speak different languages of love.
During childhood, each child grows up with unique emotional patterns. Some grow with high self-esteem, others with insecurities. Some children grow up feeling loved and others grow wantless.
People adopt a primary love language they get from their parents or the people around them in their childhood. Just like a native language.
People who grow up not feeling loved, are like children who grow poorly educated in linguistics. They will grow up with a distorted language of love, which does not mean that they will not be able to give it later, but will have to work more diligently than those who had a more positive example.
Then, if we understand that the emotional and loving language of a person is surely different from that of his spouse, then the solution could be to learn the loving language of the couple.
It is confusing and frustrating when you want to express a message of love and it does not reach the couple in the way you expect it is usually attributed to simply the other does not care about our efforts and generate a kind of resentment. However, the reality could simply be that they both speak different languages, as without one speaking Spanish and another Mandarin.
The book therefore seeks to make people understand their own language of love and identify that of their partner. Chapman says that there are basically 5 types of languages with endless forms of expressions.
On the other hand, the author talks about what he calls Tank of love, which is basically the level of love that each person feels inside. Many of the children with bad behavior what they actually suffer is an empty love tank, it is not very different from what adults experience.
The author also makes an important distinction about falling in love and love, being that the first is temporary and something that we do not really decide, while the second is lasting and is achieved by conviction.
The success of marriage, therefore, could be to work in the exercise of love, even after the stage of falling in love has ended.
It is a book about the work that marriage requires, from how to communicate better through positive affirmations and amorous words, to forgive, until our actions or quality time that we invest in the couple are in themselves a language of love.
The author also explores different types of personality, so it is not a book that seeks to give a generic magic recipe on how to maintain a successful relationship, is a book that is concerned with exploring the diversity of personalities and ways to communicate their emotions.
It is a book that essentially deals with how to express love to others according to your specific needs, a quick book to read and that can mean meaningful learning about interpersonal relationships and having real applications.